Affordable Holiday Table Decor

This holiday season snuck up on me. Can’t say that I’m as prepared as my usual list making self. Maybe you find yourself in the same situation. So, when thinking about what I could offer you for this holiday I looked to see what have been the most frequently viewed posts. It’s no surprise that the various table setting and napkin folding posts take top billing. (I’ve included those links below). If you’ve utilized those you might be in need of a few new table decor ideas. Since my holiday season has been beyond busy for a litany of reasons, I don’t have time for super fussy decor. But does that mean my table should be bare? I think not. These ideas are intended to be simple, elegant and affordable. Time’s a wasting, so I’ll stop my yapping. Here we go.

These first two ideas are a bit more home grown, but add a sense of whimsy to a place setting. Typically I do not assign seats with place cards when I entertain. I let people choose where they want to sit. That said, I’ve always felt that having the host choose where guests sit elevates the dining experience. There is a certain sophistication to it. Plus, if the host is truly thinking about table conversation, careful placement encourages people to interact with other guests. For this holiday season, I subscribe to this thinking and will be telling people where to park themselves.

Wanting to keep it simple and organic, as well as something you all could easily re-create, I pulled out my scissors and scrolled through my garden looking for a hearty, long leaf. I cut Rhododendron leaves which were ideal in color, size and sturdiness. I found some decorative paint in my stash and painted the tips and stems gold . You can also use a Sharpie or one of those gold paint pens from an art store, such as Michaels or Target. Then I scripted the names on the leaf. That’s how simple this is.

The next little DYI project is for those of you who don’t have seasonal napkin rings. This one is right out of the creative crafts bucket. You’ll need:

  • Toilet Paper Rolls

  • Double sided tape, or regular tape rolled to double sided

  • Snipped greens from the garden

  • Scissors

Next:

  • Cut the roll into 3/4” rounds (or whatever thickness you prefer).

  • Wrap the tape all the way around the roll, or you can try glue. I just didn’t want the sticky fingers that often times occurs when using glue.

  • Trim the greens to small, manageable pieces and place them around the taped part. Add tape or glue to tack down the fronds or if you want to cover more of the roll.

Once you’re done playing, slide your holiday themed napkin through the ring. Then lay the leaf place card against white plates set on a gold charger with a deep green velvet placemat and you’re all set.

Cost: $0 since I had the paint, and the leaves and greens were from my garden, and the roll of toilet paper, well…

Now, onto centerpieces. I like when the table decor allows for guests to see across the table. A low profile centerpiece does just that. Bear in mind that this idea is for those who like to have a permanent centerpiece as it is not meant to be removed for dinner.

Simply place a neutral runner or fabric down the center of the table. This could be brown kraft paper, burlap or muslin. I used two rolls of natural burlap I purchased awhile ago at Michael’s Craft Store. The more earthy toned the better for this theme to keep the feeling of nature. I like to add the candles first in order to have a sense where to place the other decorative elements. From there you just start filling in the spaces using the greenery trying to tuck the end stems under other greens. Add some pine cones to fill in the gaps. I bought this whole bunch of greens which included a Quesnelia flower for $8 at Trader Joe’s. I had the pine cones from my garden. A beautiful, warm centerpiece for $8!

This next one is a variation on the above idea but using actual large leaves or large leaf placemats instead of the natural colored runner. I picked up these placemats years ago when I was hosting private events at Despaña in Soho, NY. I used them a multitude of ways back then, and they are still coming in handy. You can find these in various stores, but of course Amazon has everything under the sun. Thus you’ll be able find a fairly prolific selection of leaf types in the link above. Lay them down the center of the table, and as previous, place the candles first. Since the base is green, I suggest leaning into more white florals and pine cones for this version to create more contrast.

And because I’m a sucker for options, if you like the above two ideas but need them to be removable, then build the centerpiece on long wooden boards, or trays. This way the entire centerpiece can be lifted to create space for food platters.

I created all the centerpieces directly on top of my dining room table without a tablecloth. You can either use placemats for your place settings or lay down a neutral tone cloth first. Your choice.

The last, simple but elegant centerpiece is a trio of vases in varying heights of all white flowers. What I love about this design is how the monochromaticity elevates even the most common flower. By utilizing a single color, you create more impact, allowing you to use affordable, inexpensive florals to create something stunning. Sure, red & green are lovely for the holiday season, but they are visually abundant this time of year. Which is why I adore a Winter White theme. For me, it is elegant simplicity. The best part is that you can easily lift these off the table if you need the center space for food platters. Added bonus; when you don’t need them as a centerpiece, you now have three separate floral arrangements to spread throughout your home. I used the large leaf placemats to anchor the entire centerpiece, allowing for the candles to feel more integrated.
I used 4 types of flowers, all purchased at Trader Joe’s for a total of $24. For less than one of those multicolored, mulit-flower bouquets I was able to create a stunning, sophisticated and abundant centerpiece.

  • Roses $10

  • Carnations $5

  • Veronica $5

  • Alstroemeria $5

I hope these give you a few more holiday decor ideas for your table this season. Wishing you the happiest and healthy of holiday seasons. As you know, I love hearing from you in the comments. Let me know what you think and if you used any of these or other ideas. Thank you for your loyal readership.

For more table setting & holiday ideas, check out these posts:

Napkin Folding - 5 Basic Folds - Countless Options

Table Setting - A Multitude of Options

Napkin Folding - A Few Festive Ideas

Thanksgiving Table Settings - Casual to Elegant Although this post has a Thanksgiving/Fall feel there are elements that can inspire any holiday table.

 

Holiday Traditions

Once upon a time there was a girl who loved to be in the kitchen. Her favorite spot was cozying up next to her mom and grandmothers, and nudging her way into the process. Little did she realize that it would be the start to a lifelong passion of cooking and baking for the people she loves. This is a love story. A story about the joy that my mom and grandmothers instilled in me about filling a table with homemade, handcrafted food made from love and for the pure joy of making people happy. And they always did. There was and still is delight around our family table. My mom and grandmothers had amazing talents in both the cooking and baking departments. And although I developed my own style, (they tended to follow recipes, and I make up stuff as I go), they inspired me, and still do.

Me, in my serious puberty years, and obviously thrilled to be in the kitchen with my Grandma Majewski in her Brooklyn home. You know how much I must value that an image speaks volumes if I am willing to share THIS photo with you. P.S. that was one of my favorite shirts. Photo Credit: Paul Majewski

Grandma Perri making her famous Peach Shortcake with Whipped Cream. She was a master.

I think back on how much these powerhouse women accomplished in the kitchen. Being a good cook and hostess were simply expected back then.  Nowadays a host is met with such kudos for doing the same or even less than what our mothers and grandmothers had been doing for decades. 

My mom and grandmas preparing Christmas meal.

I can’t tell you exactly why I was so captivated by watching them, and helping them. Maybe it was seeing the excitement of the guests as they approached a table filled to capacity with yummy bites. I guess it created a sense of fulfillment for me that would run through everything I do. In writing this love story, I tried to reach back into my deepest memories of those times to tap into that exact feeling; the scheduling, the preparation, the mounds of ingredients waiting to be used, the display, the enthusiasm for good food, the anticipation of guest arrivals and then the family gathered around a table of ‘abundancia’, laughing and crying that our bellies were too full. Those memories are deep rooted, cemented with the gift of giving. I'm glad I learned from the best.  

Grandma Majewski, probably making gravy in her Brooklyn kitchen. Photo Credit: Paul Majewski

When it comes to traditions, our family is not unique. Every family has their own set that they follow.  Ours had both holiday traditions and ones we followed weekly.  Given that we didn’t keep our Italian language alive, I believe our food traditions took on an even greater purpose. Food became our love language, so passing it down through the generations is what continues to bind us together.

My cousin, Karen, was much like me in wanting to be the guardians of traditions and recipes. Sadly, she passed and is so dearly missed. But many years before, she compiled our grandmother’s recipes and sent me a book, which, of course, now has even more sentimental value. Karen loved to cook and bake too, and was a master in her own right. In sharing these recipes she has now become an even greater part of the legacy.

I cherish this handwritten note from Karen, and am so grateful that she took the time to gather our family recipes.

Karen, my cousin on my father’s side, sitting in my maternal grandmother’s kitchen. That is what I mean about one big family.

I cherish those holiday moments of the past. But admit that I long for the days when all our families would gather together and celebrate, eat, drink and truly be merry.  We literally all lived within blocks of one another, so stopping by was no big deal.  What I loved most, and have come to truly appreciate, is how all sides of our family gathered together, in-laws from every direction, all together. When someone got married, it just meant that the entire family grew. We didn’t have to split up and go to separate places. We were one big family; relatives upon relatives upon relatives.

The Christmas dessert table. Filled with fruit, struffoli, cookies, pies, cakes and more. A gluttony of sugar. And both the Mildred’s. Yes my Italian grandmothers both changed their beautiful given names to Mildred. Do not ask, I have never understood why.

Nowadays, folks need to sit
in a car for hours or even
travel by plane. I vote for
just packing ourselves on
a sleigh and pushing our
way over to grandma’s
house.  From the smiles
on our faces there is no
doubt that this was the
preferred method of transportation back then.

 
 
 

So, it’s no wonder that I’ve tried to keep those feelings alive. And the one way I know how; baking up a storm during the holidays. Each year, as many of my family as can join come to my house to help me make cookies and Struffoli.  It’s a weekend long event, and then some.

Some stay the weekend, like my parents, happy to get up early and stay up late. Others come for a day, and sometimes if tempted with their favorite cookie, come back the next to continue to help.

Me, with my twin sisters, Jill and Alyssa.

My mom, happily rolling Butter Balls into shape.

 

My nephew, John, kneading the dough for Grandma cookies. Gianna eyeballing the cutters and which ones to use.

Gianna, my go to helper, always! That smile says it all.

Butter Balls, a delicate, buttery cookie with crushed walnuts.

Mounds and mounds of dough ready to be chilled before shaping.

There is so much nostalgia that builds around gathering with loved ones among stacks of butter, rows of eggs and mountains of flour. The debate about whether I should double or triple a recipe, then the gasps and laughs at the amounts we made. The wait to see who eats the most cookies as they come out of the oven.

It takes a ton of butter, and lots of other ingredients to make cookie magic.

There is never a shortage of flour in my home. Mountains of it.

My mom is notorious for eating cookies as she is finishing them.

Knowing that these treats are enjoyed and will be handed down to my nieces and nephew, is the best way to honor my mom and grandmothers’ traditions.

Gabrielle enjoying a Grandma Cookie

Michella and Nicolette, my cheerful little helpers.

Everybody gets their hands in there to pitch in. Some pick the tasks they love, others are forced by me to help out even if it’s not their favorite part.

My mom’s hands. Expert dough roller.

Chopping walnuts, the old fashioned way, by hand.

It’s an assembly line production and I will admit that sometimes I can be a task master. I like perfection.

You know I’m a master of efficiency.That method of using two tiny spoons to fill the Swedish Butter cookies was replaced by a piping bag. DUH

Swedish Butter Cookie recipe. Handwritten with crusty brown edges but still going strong.

Melt in your mouth butter cookie filled with raspberry jam.

Sometimes apricot jam

Chocolate Drizzled Shortbreads These shortbreads have the perfect texture and the drizzle of chocolate hits the spot.

The funny thing about me making cookies for the holidays is that due to my wheat intolerance I can’t eat a single one. I feel like that is the absolute best proof of how much I love bringing joy to others.

Lime Zest - Raspberry Jam Sandwich Cookie This cookie is buttery with a zing of lime followed by the tart of raspberry finished with sweet from the powdered sugar. What more can you ask from a cookie?

It may be hard work. But we always make time for wine.

When it comes to holiday traditions, we have several cookies that are main stays every year. But two are at the absolute top of the heap: Struffoli and Grandma Cookies.

Struffoli are a traditional southern Italian Christmas treat, that originated in Naples which is near where my Grandma Perri was born (Salerno). They are basically fried dough balls covered in melted honey and sugar, mounded up and finished with sprinkles. (Who the hell cares about calories or if these are healthy. They are good for you because they are delicious and put a smile on your face. That’s health, my friends.)

It is a laborious job that takes time and patience. You have to make the dough, knead the dough until it’s baby bottom smooth, cut the dough into small pieces and roll them into long ropes, let dry, then cut into tiny bits, then fry, then cook to coat them with sugar & honey. Believe me when I say it’s a process, but one I do with absolute love for those you relish picking one ball off at a time. For years my grandmother never let me knead the dough. And she watched over me as I rolled the ropes. Too thin, too thick. Ok, that’s just right. And while she was alive, I think I was only allowed to fry them once on my own. It was a decades long apprenticeship.

The other stand out fav is the Grandma cookie. I guess every family has their own version of a Grandma Cookie. For our part, we have no idea where our recipe originated, or if my Grandmother invented it herself. My Grandma Perri made them, without any written recipe. It was simply all kept in her head. Finally, one year we got smart. We carefully watched he, measured what she tossed in the bowl, and wrote it all down in order to preserve the legacy forever. She called them Grandma Cookies. So we called them Grandma Cookies. And that is how they will remain. The cookie made by my Grandmother.

Just as with the Struffoli, it was years before she allowed me to do certain tasks. I had to earn my level of involvement, proving that I mastered the previous task. And to be honest, there are still times when I wish they were both right behind me so I could ask them questions or have them tell me that I’m doing it right.

The texture of these are more like a mini cake/scone than a cookie. And the way my grandmother made them was not a beautiful work of art. No, no, the icing was and still is simply brushed on willy nilly, and sprinkles are spooned over top. And to be honest, I’m all for that method. True, that those immaculately glazed cookies are a thing of beauty but all that work destroyed after one bite. Heck, it tastes the same no matter the decoration.

For anyone who has had these cake like cookies they know what I’m talking about. They are so darn good. And because they are beloved… We literally make a table load.

Yards of Grandma Cookies.

It has always been a family affair but when some family members can’t make the trip, they join in by FaceTime.

Nicolette calling in from NC and marveling at the amount of Grandma Cookies we made. Those are her favorite, as her sisters Gabrielle and Michella, too.

It’s a tradition I try hard to fulfill each year. No matter what is going on, or how crazy the season gets I do my very best to bake up a storm. But this tradition took a turn these past several years due to the pandemic. I have been making everything by myself and then ship them to family. It was quite the adjustment. The other big change was that I starting selling my baked goods, so certain protocols and procedures are taken for customer orders. You can check out my SHOP PAGE to see what’s cooking.

 

Head covering, gloves are always used.

However, Grandma Cookies and Struffoli are still purely a family tradition. And this year I was looking forward to welcoming back my crew of apprentices. But as luck would have it, schedules shifted and we are making a big move for my parents from Long Island to Westchester smack dab in the middle of the holidays. Thus the cookie manufacturing plant has been postponed until they get settled and we can all reconvene again. Maybe that’s why I decided to write this post. I wanted desperately to get back to the holiday traditions I know and love. So sharing this holiday love story will have to do until my parents are settled in, and back right by my side.

I can always count on them for any task. I love having them help me.

No matter how these cookies are packaged, they come from deep in my heart, and made with pure love.

 

I end as I began with my mouth wide opened laughing in the kitchen, with my Grandmothers on my spiritual shoulders.

Thank you for indulging me this trip down memory lane. Sharing the abundance of togetherness, laughter and holiday cheer is the best way of honoring the past, living in the present and ensuring the future. 

From my family to yours, I wish you all the very happiest of holidays.  Joyous of years filled with peace and bliss, adventure and wonder, laughter and giggles, health and more health all stirred with the largest amount, and only ingredient that matters… LOVE.   

Holiday Entertaining Refresher Course

I don’t know about you but I’m a tad rusty on entertaining these days. I know I keep repeating myself about this point but it’s true. I went from hosting parties every month to hosting 4 times in past 3 years! To say that my skills are dull is an understatement. As you may have read from the last two posts, we recently hosted two small gatherings for friends and family, and I was actually nervous. For the larger one (just 8 people including us) I had serving platters spread out across the dining table, staring at them in a frozen state, unable to make a decision on what to use. Seriously, how pathetic. But as with any skill, practice is the key to keeping it sharp, and for regaining it.

So as we approach the thick of the holiday season, I felt like I needed a refresher course, and thought it might be helpful for you, too.

There are some key notes to keep in mind, so you don’t lose yours.

  1. Keep it manageable. Don’t try to take on too much. (I should take my own advice.) Make simple but appetizing platters.

A platter of dry cured meat with some cucumber slices makes a festive appetizer.

2. Prep as much as you can ahead of time. Whether it be cutting, chopping and placing in containers until needed, or cooking ahead time. Look at your whole menu and devise a strategy that spreads the work out.

Pre-cook whatever you can then just reheat.

Arrange your food items on the trays or pots and have them at the ready.

Chop, slice and place in containers or bags, then labeled for easy assembly.

3. Know when you need help, AND then ask for it. (Whether from your family/friends or if you need to hire an extra set of hands.)

Have everyone chip in helping to get the meal to the table.

4. Avoid trying new and untested recipes. It only adds to the stress. (Again, advice I rarely take myself)

Simple potato mash. Nothing complicated but still delicious.

5. When making the guest list think about the mingle factor. We may not have seen some of our friends and family for awhile but that doesn’t mean we need to jam them all in for one occasion. Maybe think about spreading your hosting events out. For instance, one year when we hosted Thanksgiving and were at capacity, we hosted a Friday after Thanksgiving dinner with a separate group. Smaller more manageable groups are easier.

Big dinner

Smaller group

6. Set the table days in advance. I have found this removes so much of the last minute stress. You could be finishing up in the kitchen when guests arrive but you don’t have to worry that the table isn’t set when they walk through the door. (Side Bonus: I love walking past a beautifully set today several days beforehand. It inspires me and plain ole brings a smile to my face.)

Set a pretty table. By doing this way ahead of time you can include all the details without being under time pressure.

7. Set up a Drink Station so your guests can easily help themselves. One less thing.

Keep it simple. You don’t need to provide a full bar.

Have enough glasses out so everyone can help themselves without having to ask where are the glasses!

8. Decor. This is a tough one for me because I love florals and making a space look beautiful and inviting. Naturally there are much less fussy ways to decorate your table or home. I always try to do this portion way ahead of time. Do what is within your comfort zone.

Fall Theme Centerpiece - a tray of visual interest.

I love creating big floral arrangements. I just can’t help myself.

9. Menu planning/Budget Planning/List making: All important elements to keep you sane.

And in case that short list wasn’t enough, below are links to some previous posts that you might find helpful.

Thanksgiving Reminders, Appetizers & More

Thanksgiving Table Settings - Casual to Elegant

Napkin Folding - A Few Festive Ideas

Napkin Folding - Five Basic Folds - Countless Options

5 Appetizers That Impress & Relieve Stress

I hope these tidbits help refresh your entertaining memory. I wish you all a thoughtful, grateful Thanksgiving filled with love and laughter, health and happiness.

If you are wondering about our plans, since we have been busy with a new business venture this year we aren’t hosting, but instead hoping for invites. If you need to fill in two chairs, we are available and taking requests. I promise I’ll bring something yummy.

 

Happy Thanksgiving!

New Year's Eve - A Private Party

This was way back when pressing our heads together was a natural, safe thing to do.

Ok, Christmas down. Onto New Year’s Eve. And just as with these past few holidays this year, some adjustments might be required. Smaller gatherings, more intimate, less in your face screaming, yelling, raucous partying to ring in the New Year. Who am I kidding? I have never done that. New Year’s Eve or any other eve, raucous partying just isn’t my scene. Which is why two years ago before the shit hit the fan, we invited our dear friends, Tecla and Scott, to enjoy a quiet, food filled festivity to usher in the New Year. Happily they agreed, and we had the most fabulous time. They stayed the night and then we continued to fill our bellies with brunch the next day. This is how I love spending time. Intimate, one on one, quiet gatherings so that the conversation can be meaningful and intended, and not having to jump from guest to guest. Who knew that New Year’s Eve 2019 would be practice for the small gathering existence we have been living for the past two years.

 

This year, as with last, JuanCarlos and I will spend it alone by the fire, together counting our blessings, feeling grateful for how safe we are able to remain in our home, working at careers we both love that afford us comfort, security, health and joy. And we can reminisce of celebrations past, and dream of the next New Year Eve’s that we can spend with our friends and family.

If you are able to gather safely with loved ones this year and need some entertaining ideas, here’s a jog down memory lane of what we served that evening. The time when we thought 2020 would be a year of clear vision. Well, it certainly did open our eyes, just maybe not realizing what we would see.

On to the offerings. Tecla and Scott are such joys to be with. Salt of the earth types that are just darn good people. They appreciate good food and wine, and good conversation and laughs. It’s always such a treat spending quality time with them. Clearly, you can see that Tecla is the life of the partying. She wore a boa!

Me, Tecla and JuanCarlos. Scott was taking the picture. Photo Credit: Scott

We decided to start the party in the kitchen, which we never used to do since our kitchen had some serious circulation issues. But months before we completed a small refresh in the kitchen that helped the flow and allowed us the ability to sit around the center island/table. So, we began with a few starters there.

Removing the island that was originally attached to the wall and centering it completely modified the kitchen’s functionality. Now we can host in the kitchen. So we did. Just for appetizers. Photo Credit: Tecla

  • Burrata with Heirloom Tomatoes

  • Crabmeat Cocktail (Lump Crabmeat with diced red pepper, avocado, cilantro and lemon juice)

  • Carrot Ginger Soup

Crabmeat cocktail. You can swap out the crabmeat for shrimp.
Photo Credit: Tecla

JuanCarlos engaging in some sort of deep discussion.
Photo Credit: Tecla

 

Simplicity of ingredients. When you use the freshest, best quality, that’s all you need. Photo Credit: Tecla

Carrot, Ginger, Coconut Milk Soup is so soothing and a perfect way to start a meal. Photo Credit: Tecla

Then we had dinner in the formal dining room. Personally I am a fan of a separate dining room, and not of the open concept craze. I could explain in depth why I feel so strongly on this topic, but better to save that for another time. Back to business.

I was pleased with the winter wonderland feeling of the ivory tablecloth peppered with cranberry colored velvet place mats and hunter green napkins corralled by gold tasseled napkin rings for a touch of elegance. Small floral arrangements of the same color scheme balanced out the table with candle lights everywhere for a warm glow. Plus the magnificent flowers that Tecla and Scott brought was a perfect addition.

I had made small floral arrangements but Tecla and Scott brought this amazing floral bouquet to adorn the table. It was stunning and perfectly complimented my table setting color scheme. Photo Credit: Tecla

Dinner consisted of:

  • Pappardelle with Osso Buco

  • Sauteéd Shrimp

  • Roasted Beets

  • Marinated Feta

  • Butter Lettuce Salad with Parsley Leaves & Sliced Pears

Osso Buco is rich and decadent. Sauteéd shrimp with lots of garlic and herbs are always so satisfying, and easy to make. Photo Credit: Tecla

Seriously, is there anything better than a steaming bowl of pasta? NOTHING Photo Credit: Tecla

Let’s eat. Photo Credit: Tecla

Then we had dessert and after dinner drinks by the fire in the living room. I love moving around and utilizing as much of our home as possible to entertain. I think it keeps the evening interesting and you can create separate environments for each stage.

Our large Indonesian coffee table has been the ideal landing spot for appetizers, dinner or desserts.

Dessert was simple and easy. I made a variety of flavors of homemade ice creams, homemade Christmas cookies, our Italian family tradition, Struffoli. What is really interesting is that Tecla was born and raised in Florence Italy. One year I sent her struffoli for the holidays thinking that she would enjoy an old Italian tradition. Much to my surprise these were not part of her holiday tradition. My grandmother was from Salerno, in the south, near Naples. Food and traditions are quite different from region to region. Yet, somehow it doesn’t matter north, south, east or west, tradition or not, once you try struffoli they will become part of your new tradition.

Stuffoli: fried dough balls soaked in honey. What’s not to love?

Not fancy, just scooping out homemade ice creams.
Photo Credit: Tecla

Traditional Christmas Cookies

The next morning, I utilized much of the previous night’s table setting to serve brunch. I had pre-made most of the items a day or two before, so it was mostly a matter of placing everything out for us to enjoy.

When you are hosting a brunch for overnight guests, it’s important to think the menu through so you aren’t overloading yourself with having to prepare too much. Buying some items that require nothing more than placing them on a plate or bowl mixed with homemade items that can be prepared well in advance is the stress free way to go. A Tortilla Española is perfect method to serve up eggs and potatoes without being a short order cook. A Leek & Onion Goat Cheese Tart provides another warm, rich dish that compliments everything else. Both these can easily be made a few days ahead. I am always making my Crunchin’ Coconut & Seed Granola for customers, so that was readily on hand.

Tecla enjoying a few morning treats and good dose of coffee. A bountiful table that had a wide assortment from which to choose.

 

Alright, maybe we did cheer a little bit. Photo Credit: Tecla

 

We had so much fun that night. When I look at these images now I am filled with two contrasting emotions. One of sadness at the thought of how clueless we were about the hell storm that was about to besiege us. Two, of great joy and pure gratitude for being able to spend such a wonderful time together. And for the sheer, carefree feeling we all felt that evening. I look to these photos and envision the day when that kind of untroubled, happy-go-lucky, merriment can enjoyed again.

Wishing you all health, health and health for that is the greatest wealth of all. And love.

 

The evening sealed with a kiss, and a promise of more to love to come.

Napkin Folding - A Few Festive Ideas

Ok, here we are on the heels of Thanksgiving and more festivities are rushing our way. I know what you are going to say. It’s the same time period every year. Yet somehow it feels like the time between the two holidays gets shorter and shorter. So, if you are one of the lucky ones that’s been tapped twice for hosting duties, bless you, and you may need some new entertaining tricks.

Since I have noticed that one of the most highly viewed posts on my blog is Napkin Folding - 5 Basic Folds - Countless Options, I figured that might be where a few fresh ideas are needed. That post seems to really resonate with readers around the world, and I hope it continues to provide simple yet pretty options for your table settings. But if you’ve already used up those ideas, a bunch of festive options might come in handy right about now.

This post isn’t as extension as the previous. I didn’t show all the ways you can modify or adorn each one. And I didn’t show perfectly finished place settings, but I did give you a little something extra.
Video demonstrations to show exactly how to fold each one, plus bullet point step by step instructions.

Cue the video tape!

Let’s start with the most obvious festive fold for the season…

The Christmas Tree

I used a deep forest green square napkin. Of course, you can use whatever color you want, the tree shape is clear but green drives the theme home.

  • Fold in half, and in half again to create a smaller square.

  • Fold back the first open edge up towards the top of the triangle point of the napkin.

  • Continue to fold up each open edge to create layers.

  • Turn the napkin over and fold the sides inward toward the bottom edge

  • Flip back over, making any tiny adjustments, and add a decorative topper. Or just leave it as a plain tree is just fine, too.

The Holiday Wreath

I used an orange and green plaid napkin. I felt it gave more visual interest as a wreath. Of course, you can use whatever color you want, but I recommend a multicolored option to add to the affect.

  • Accordion fold the napkin.

  • Holding one end, twist the folded napkin all the way to the next end.

  • Pull one end through a napkin ring letting the edges stick out.

  • Tuck the other end into the ring.

  • Adjust so it’s round and add a decorative element.

 

The Poinsettia

For this one, I like using a napkin that has a border to help create more of a flower petal effect. But if you don’t have napkins like that it’s fine. The shape is unmistakably flower-like. Back in my catering days we used this folding method to create decorative liners for bread baskets. I figured why not make a bold statement at each place setting with this fold that is reminiscent of large Poinsettia petals.

  • With right side down, fold each corner into the center to create a smaller square.

  • Holding the center together, flip the napkin over and fold each point into the center creating an even smaller square. I find flipping it right onto the plate makes it easier so the shape remains beautiful without having to move it.

  • Then holding the center points, pull the under fold out and up to create a petal. Repeat for each corner.

  • Simply placed on the center of the plate it creates a big, bold statement.

 

The Menu Envelope

Some of us go all out and actually print out a menu. Instead of just placing the menu on the plate, why not conceal it within a napkin envelope. And for those who think printing up a menu is overkill, reconsider for these top three reasons.

  1. It informs your guests of the glorious meal that awaits them

  2. It shows you took the time to curate the menu.

  3. It creates a pretty keepsake for you and your guests.

Onto the fold. Use a square napkin, color of your choice. I chose white for a traditional envelope feel, here’s how it goes.

  • Fold in half, and half again to create a smaller square.

  • Place the folded corner edge at the top, then place your menu in the center

  • Fold the side corners in over the sides of the menu

  • Fold the bottom triangle edge up towards the middle and tuck the top edge under to reveal the top of the menu

  • Fold the top triangle down to close the envelope, and adorn with a decorative pop of color or a sprig of rosemary

You can also leave the menu out placed on top of the envelope.

The Fountain Burst

You can use any color napkin. I chose one with a dainty border to impart a fringe edge.

  • Fold in half, and then accordion fold the entire napkin.

  • Pull the bottom of the napkin through a napkin ring. (If you don’t have a napkin ring, you can cut paper towel tubes into rings. Since it will be covered for the finished result it’s not crucial that you use some pretty napkin ring. You can even use ribbon to tie it.)

  • Pull the napkin through 1/3 the way up, then tuck the bottom edges up and into the ring, covering it completely.

  • Place onto the plate and fan out the top portion to create a fountain burst across the entire plate.

Or you can leave the bottom untucked and let it fan out on the bottom as well. That’s pretty too!

I hope the videos helped to demonstrate how fairly easy these are to pull off. This was my first video demonstration, so please be kind with your comments, but any and all feedback is always welcomed. I’m learning as I go to help give you a more visual representation of my work. Lastly, my apologies that these weren’t in full table set ups, but I know that your imaginations and creativity will bring the entire table setting together. Just in case you need a head start, here are a few suggestions:

Take cues from the napkin theme you choose to inform your table design. For example, if using a Christmas tree napkin, keep the centerpiece simple by laying down some greens and adding votive candles as a table runner.

Same goes for the Holiday wreath. Maybe twist greens into a circle and place the votives in the center to mimic the wreaths.

I hope these napkin folds help bring cheer to your holiday table.

May you have a safe, healthy and joyous Christmas

May the New Year usher in a true sense of health and well being for all of human kind.

Blessings!